Positivity, Please
1. The word "can't" does not exist in your vocabulary.
"I can't do pull ups." -> "I am unable to do pull ups yet."
2. Use Affirmative words.
"Don't forget to do the laundry." -> "Remember to do the laundry."
3. Approach everything with the Abundance/Growth Mindset, instead of the Scarcity/Fixed Mindset.
"I need to go to the gym." -> "I get to go to the gym."
"I can't afford that." -> "How can I afford that?"